What is Daughtering?
Verb – Daughtering /ˈdɑdərɪŋ/ DAH-duhr-ing
The activity of relating to a parent as their child; be or act as a daughter to (a parent).
“Adult women are doing daughtering as an act of family and connection.”
Adult daughters are actively participating in their families to build and sustain connection, foster love and trust, and prevent conflict. These efforts can often go unnoticed or unappreciated. Doing daughtering takes a lot of time and energy, but it can also be rewarding and fulfilling. It’s time for adult daughters to have a community where we can share the challenges, benefits, and beautiful connectivity of daughtering.
The Book
When women learn about the concept of daughtering, they often say, “Tell me more!” Enter, a comprehensive book on what it means to be a modern adult daughter. Dr. Allison Alford, expert in adult daughters and what it means to do daughtering, has a compelling book in the works. This book (anticipated Spring 2026) offers a compelling exploration into the often overlooked and underappreciated role of adult daughters within families. It’s sure to spark conversations and bring much-needed visibility to the vital role of daughters in family life.
About Allison
I’m Allison Alford, a researcher, author, and advocate who believes deeply in the power of women’s stories. I listen closely, shine a light on the complexities of our lives, and push for a more equitable world where every woman and family can flourish. Through my work, I aim to create conversations that matter and help build stronger, more connected families. Let’s explore, learn, and grow together.
